For Men
Alone, we cannot do what we can do together!
A team can win the game, where a single player cannot.
Join a winning team and lets make your life wonderful!
Men face their own issues, and trying to fix them alone sucks.
So, enlist the aid of others.
Henry Ford invented the assembly line and revolutionized production.
But he did not do it alone, he had a team behind him.
Henry Ford invented the assembly line and revolutionized production.
But he did not do it alone, he had a team behind him.
A mans life has obstacles
We all make choices in life. We can decide to sit back and passively await events to unfold. And sometimes that is the right decision. But, there are times when we need to step up and do the work to take control of our own lives and destinies. We can not always do that alone. And that is when we need to reach out and accept the help being offered to us. We join forces with others, in order to advance our own cause! Here is an opportunity to do just that!
Hypnosis has helped millions of people take control of, and change the direction of their lives. It is not mysterious, it is simply taking advantage of the natural function of our minds and installing new programs to advance our desires and goals. This is a very simple thing, but most people have no idea how to do that. And that is what a hypnotherapist specializes in! Showing people how to advance their own cause. Correct their own issues and put their lives on track for happiness and success.
Men are different than women in many ways. But, being human, they are the same in many others. One of the ways men are the same, is the fact that they are raised to believe certain things. They are given faulty information and it can really mess up their lives.
Hypnosis has helped millions of people take control of, and change the direction of their lives. It is not mysterious, it is simply taking advantage of the natural function of our minds and installing new programs to advance our desires and goals. This is a very simple thing, but most people have no idea how to do that. And that is what a hypnotherapist specializes in! Showing people how to advance their own cause. Correct their own issues and put their lives on track for happiness and success.
Men are different than women in many ways. But, being human, they are the same in many others. One of the ways men are the same, is the fact that they are raised to believe certain things. They are given faulty information and it can really mess up their lives.
So many men are emotionally abused, much the same as many women are emotionally abused.
Emotional abuse is “An ongoing process where one person systematically diminishes, then destroys, the inner life of another.”
And in a lot of instances, this abuse is not a malicious act. Well meaning people abuse us thinking they are helping! They mean well, but the information they pass on is faulty. They believe it, because it is the information they were given during their lives. They have no intention of doing the serious harm they do. But, that makes it no less harmful.
Emotional abuse is “An ongoing process where one person systematically diminishes, then destroys, the inner life of another.”
And in a lot of instances, this abuse is not a malicious act. Well meaning people abuse us thinking they are helping! They mean well, but the information they pass on is faulty. They believe it, because it is the information they were given during their lives. They have no intention of doing the serious harm they do. But, that makes it no less harmful.
"The road to hell is paved, with good intentions"
Consider the following video of a talk given by Dr. Timothy Golden. Does any of it hit home with you? Should you watch the video and answer no to that question, you are either lying or the exception. What Mind Mechanic Hypnosis is focused on, is correcting these kinds of issues. You see, you do not have to suffer anymore, once you take the plunge and address your root issues.
Consider the following video of a talk given by Dr. Timothy Golden. Does any of it hit home with you? Should you watch the video and answer no to that question, you are either lying or the exception. What Mind Mechanic Hypnosis is focused on, is correcting these kinds of issues. You see, you do not have to suffer anymore, once you take the plunge and address your root issues.
And for most men, the root issues have quite a bit in common.
WORKING TOGETHER WE CAN FIX PRETTY MUCH ANYTHING
The key to changing your life is in your hands right now. What should you do?
01
Identify the problems
Admit things are not working right. Find what is in the way, what is not working.
02
Locate the obstacles
Take an honest inventory and make a list of everything that needs to change to get you where you want to be. Then, set your goals.
03
Create a plan
Make a plan to change what you can, calling on others to assist you when needed, in order to meet the goals you have set.
04
Take action on your plan
Put that plan into action and let nothing stand in your way while you achieve your goals.
A mans problems start when he is a boy
Below is a TEDx speech given by Warren Ferrel Ph.D. He lays out quite a bit about the problems boys get into and how it happens.
Quite the disturbing look at things.
The problems may be the same, but the cause is different
Two people standing side by side. Similar backgrounds, similar education. They are long time friends. They see something happen, together, at the same time, standing shoulder to shoulder. If you separate them before they can discuss what they saw, each is going to tell you something different about what they both saw happen. This is a fact of human existence. Ask any police officer.
Why does this happen? Because each has their own set of subconscious filters through which they view the world. These filters might be put in place by the same experiences. However, the subconscious mind puts its own interpretation on everything and it is as unique as a fingerprint. So, though they each saw the exact same thing, from the exact same distance and perspective, they each describe something different. It is an inescapable phenomenon caused by individual interpretations of the same set of facts.
Now, what does that mean to us? It means that, although 2 people, even with similar backgrounds, have the same problem, the way that problem started is going to be different. The root cause of Dan's anxiety, will be different than Tom's even though anxiety is anxiety. Therefore, the approach to stop the anxiety will have to be different, That is exactly what a hypnotist does. They help the client go inside themselves and identify and deal with the cause of the problem, in order to allow the client to solve the problem themselves.
Every problem in the human condition has two things. Cause and effect. Some problems are very easy to figure out. However, because of the way the mind works, changing it can be difficult to near impossible, for them. Simple or complex, the repair is normally outside of our direct control. Speaking of smoking, how many times does a person quit smoking before they are successful? They decide they are quitting, apply willpower and viola, within a couple hours or days, they are smoking again.
Why does this happen? They have iron will, yet, they were unable to change the smoking habit. The reason lies in the function of the mind. There are two parts involved in this. The conscious mind. That part that is our awareness of the outside world, the passage of time, the danger of stepping out in front of a truck. And the subconscious mind. That part that stores our long term memory, deals with emotion, creative factors, art, musical ability and running the programs that make up our being. It is in control of all change.
The conscious and subconscious both work to protect us. But, the conscious mind also works to protect the subconscious. When new information is introduced, the conscious mind receives it, examines it, compares it to the old information, stored in the subconscious, and if the two are at odds with one another, the conscious mind bounces the new information out without the subconscious ever examining it. Therefore, the smoker makes a conscious decision to stop smoking and applies willpower. However, since this new information is at odds with the subconscious memory that they are a smoker, nothing changes. The conscious mind does not allow that information to pass into the subconscious, where changes are made.
If, when you were a young child, your parents showed you a rectangle, but told you it was a square, what do you think would have happened in school when the teacher identified it as a rectangle? Your subconscious would have identified it as a square and sent that information to the conscious mind. Then, the conscious mind would have defended that identification against any differing information, because to the conscious mind “THAT'S A SQUARE!”
You likely would argue with the teacher and land in the principals office.
Go to the FAQ and read Steven C. Parkhill's “Onion Is An Apple” for an explanation how these things can easily be changed. You simply need to access the subconscious mind directly, and install the new information directly, without the conscious mind bouncing it out. Sounds fairly simple no? In a lot of ways, it truly is that simple. At least to a hypnotist. A hypnotist can accomplish more for you in two sessions than reading 20 self help books, for exactly this reason.
If you have read the information on hypnosis on this site, you already know the truth about hypnosis. You do not sleep, you do not lose control, you are not a zombie, you cannot be made to commit a crime and you cannot get “stuck” in trance.
You also understand that hypnosis is a natural function of the mind. One you literally can not live without.
The subconscious mind is the most powerful mechanism for change in human existence. Take advantage of that. Whatever the problem, construct a solution, formulate a plan to make the changes needed to get the desired outcome. And then make those changes. Hypnosis can help you install the new program quickly and effectively, creating the changes you desire. And hypnotist can do it without the interference of the conscious mind, which is only trying to protect you, and the subconscious mind.
There are specific pages here for some issues already. But if you do not see your specific issue on the site, drop me a line from the “contact me” page and I will do my best to address it for you.
The whole thing is to improve your life through positive, empowering change!
What have you got to lose?
Expect miracles, accept success
Justin Baldoni lays down the truth about masculenity
Normally this type of video is a non starter with me. I don't want to hear about the feminizing of men.
It is unnatural, unhealthy and insane! Men and manliness have their place.
However, as Justin lays out, there IS room to enhance a mans life by embracing the feminine without giving up or destroying the masculine traits of men. Simply stated, being in touch with your "feminine" side, such as sensitivity, compassion and other traits normally associated with women, does not mean you have to be a Nancy Boy, as it seems modern feminists wish to create.
But we will get to the feminists soon enough.
As to the men, you do not have to give up your Alpha status to incorporate some traits normally considered Beta.
And that can be a very good thing.
Access to"The whole man"page
Access to "The whole man"
page is password protected. You have to ask for the password in an E-mail to me.
The reason is I need to maintain control of who has access, like I do with "The complete woman"
page.
I do not allow men on "The complete woman"
page, nor women on "The whole man page"
for obvious reasons.
You can access the page with the password I will give you in E-mail. The password is changed regularly.
Expect miracles, accept success
Speaking of feminists
Any woman who tells me she is "a feminist" has normally lost me right there.
I simply do not have time for that crap, it has become destructive today.
Not to long ago, I was in a Cantina speaking with a tourist. A woman walks up and he introduces her as his daughter, so I included her in the conversation. I started laying the groundwork for a very funny joke/life truth I like to share. During the set up for the joke, she angrily exclaims that I "don't have to man splain it!" I apologized for trying to tell a joke and walked away. This was a modern feminist.
When I was a child, my mom participated in the women's rights movement. I helped her when I could. I believed in the rights of women and still do today. I am an absolute believer in fact. However, that original movement won their battle. And then, as any good organization should, it started disbanding. An organization who's goals are met, becomes toxic if it continues past winning.
What took over the organization and name, is toxic, anti male, psychotic women and women without the ability to negotiate or think for themselves. And Cassie Jaye was one of them, as she will tell you. Listen to her describe the feminists of today.
But, more important to this conversation, listen to what she says about men's rights activists.
Honestly, for a very long time, it has been my opinion that modern feminists are insane. And, as far as I was concerned, this included all of them. Each and every one of them I ran into where this issue was involved, proved this to me again beyond doubt. And now, I have to rethink that. Sort of. I still think they are insane, but this one left feminism when she "Met the enemy," meaning men active in the men's rights movement. She actually gets it! As a result of this meeting, she is no longer a "feminist."
Which might just prove my point.
I will let her explain it in her own words.
Cassie Jaye the reformed feminist speaks
Cassie Jaye found out that those in the men's rights movement are not the monsters feminism had taught her to think of them as.
She found out that they have a point and they are not trying to destroy feminism as she was told.
They just want a fair shake.
She does not mention it here, but I can say with authority, in all the years I worked with the men's rights movement, There was never a member of those groups who was anti woman, anti woman's rights or who desired to diminish a woman's rights.
You see, my experience is, guys like that, and they DO exist, are quickly thrown out of a men's rights group.
They are not tolerated nor wanted. They do not fit in.
I do not want to get political here, that is not what this website is about. But, I felt the need to post that information because men are getting a bad rap and their reputation is sullied daily by the modern feminists. They get destroyed by false allegations and when those accusations come out, they are convicted wrongfully at an alarming rate.
This also describes some of the very serious problems between the sexes. These problems can destroy a man.
If you are not a hateful, bigoted, mean, woman hater, be secure in that knowledge. And by the way, congratulations, you are normal.
Real men do not want anything to do with a man who beats his wife, subjugates women or is honestly a bigot.
And that is not a right or left thing, that is just reality.
Now then, lets get back to fixing ourselves, shall we?
Expect miracles, accept success